When I was young, my brother and I had good language skills. But his language skills

When I was young, my brother and I had good language skills. But his language skills are all used in telling stories, telling jokes, and sweet talk about how to pull a sister. My language skills are all used to argue and challenge people. At the end of the sentence, my sister-in-law and grandmother often leave it alone. So my elder brother, who had both children and children early, looked at me as a real aunt and grandmother one day with compassionate childlike eyes.